Digital Problems: Do We Tell My Buddy (Or Their Wife) That I Discovered His Dating Profile?

Digital Problems: Do We Tell My Buddy (Or Their Wife) That I Discovered His Dating Profile?

By Steven Petrow Parade @stevenpetrow

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Dear Mr. Manners: my pal along with his wife have already been married for just two years and appear delighted. But i simply discovered their profile for a site that is dating. It had been demonstrably updated recently. Must I state one thing to him? To her? — title withheld

A: actually, don’t you’ve got an adequate amount of your very own issues to allow this be? Furthermore, simply as you think you realize something (e.g. your buddy is about to cheat on their spouse) doesn’t suggest you truly know it. It is definitely feasible, so it might be either a fake profile (someone’s utilizing their photo) or an inactive one.

What’s also maybe maybe maybe not completely far-fetched, as several visitors back at my Facebook web page noted whenever I posed your concern, is friends and family 1) have actually a open wedding or 2) are swingers. As one audience posted: “What could be your reaction that his wife was in favor of his activities if he told you? (more…)